Labor and Childbirth: Support Person's Notes
Labor and Childbirth: Support Person's Notes
You may be excited and anxious about
the impending labor and childbirth. You may also wonder how you can help. Learning
about
the birth process can help you know what to expect. And following the suggestions
below can
help ease you and the mother through this exciting time.
During early labor
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Be sure to time the
contractions.
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Keep the setting soothing.
Dim lights and prevent loud noises. Try playing relaxing music.
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Suggest that the mother soak
in a warm tub to ease the pain of contractions.
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Try to distract the mother
from the contractions with a short walk or massage.
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Encourage the mother to rest
if she's tired.
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As contractions become
stronger, help her use labor breathing techniques.
During active labor
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Have the mother walk or
change position at least once an hour. This improves circulation and helps the
baby descend.
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Keep reminding the mother to
breathe and relax through each contraction.
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Reassure her. Try to keep her
from getting anxious or overstressed.
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Take care of yourself. Take a
short break to eat or go to the bathroom when you need to.
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Rest when the mother does.
You'll both benefit.
During a vaginal birth
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Help the mother into a
pushing position. Support her body as she pushes. A semi-sitting or semi-squatting
position allows gravity to assist the birth.
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Remind her to rest between
contractions. Encourage her by telling her when the baby's head appears.
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Keep in mind that you may be
masked and gowned for the birth, depending on hospital policy.
During a cesarean birth
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You will most likely be able
to stay with the mother during the cesarean. If you remain with her, you'll wear a
mask and surgical gown.
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Remember that cesarean birth
is surgery. The mother's abdominal area will be draped and out of view. Don't
touch the draped areas, which are sterile.
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If you aren't allowed to
attend the delivery or aren't comfortable doing so, wait with other friends and
family members in the family waiting area.
Online Medical Reviewer: Irina Burd MD PhD
Online Medical Reviewer: Donna Freeborn PhD CNM FNP
Online Medical Reviewer: Heather Trevino
Date Last Reviewed:
7/1/2021
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